So, I did a voluntary debate paper for my english class, it was extra credit. It had to be on a subject that I felt very strongly about. I chose to write about rapists and child molestors and the fact that punishment is not as strong as it should be. My baby girl was molested back in May and my family, as well as myself, have had alot of pain because of this and other circumstances. I wanted to share my paper with you, alot of you are moms and dads, aunts and uncles. The information I found was really scary.
Eng 102
12/4/2007
Rapists and child molesters, getting off too easy
“The serial killer has the same personality characteristics as the sex offender against children"-Dr. Mace Knapp, Nevada State Prison Psychologist.
Only 3% of child molestations that occur are committed by a stranger. That is
terrifying; our children are being raped and molested by people they know. They are
being hurt and abused by people that are supposed to love and protect them. In the case of
adult rape 38% are committed by a friend/acquaintance, 28% by an intimate partner, 7%
by a family member and 26% were committed by a stranger. Along with that 6 out of 10
rapes occur in the victim’s place of residence. Out of those rapes only 1 out of 16 rapists
will actually face jail time or even be convicted. I believe that the punishment for these
crimes should be much greater than they are now.
If we can provide harsh enough consequences it could cut down drastically on the
person doing it again as well as keep women, very few men and our children safe from
these disgusting crimes. If we can provide punishment the first time and get children help
when they have been molested I believe that it would cut rapes and molestation down
drastically. According to the United nations 2/3 of all prisoners convicted of rape or
sexual assault had committed their crime against a child and out of those 85% reported
being sexually assaulted some point in their lives. If we could do something to cut the
cycle, imagine what a difference it would have on thousands upon thousands of people.
About 10% of violent offenders with child victims received life or death sentences
and the average prison term was 11 years, somewhat shorter average sentences than
received by those with adult victims. That is for VIOLENT offenders, nonviolent
offenders can receive as little as 2 years. More than 1/2 of all convicted sex offenders are
sent back to prison within a year. Within 2 years, 77.9% are back. Recidivism rates range
from 18-45%, the more violent the crime the more likelihood of repeating it. Knowing
this the government still let violent offenders out on parole well before their release date.
Most criminals, serving non life sentences, are released up to two years before their
scheduled date of release. That is just wrong.
If these criminals had really served their time and were truly fearful of going back
to where they were, they would not be so quick to do it again. If they were afraid to go
back to prison, they would not even think about doing it again. 11 years is nothing in
comparison to what the victims have to face. The assaulter spends that time being taken
care of at the expense of tax payers when the person that they sexually assaulted will
never be the same. The victims will always have what was done to them in the back of
their heads. Some, with intense counseling, can put it far from their thoughts, but it never
leaves them. Trust of the opposite gender, sometimes the same, is never the same.
Children have developmental delays and emotional delays as well. 68% of homosexual
men were reportedly molested by men as children or teenagers. Their first sexual
experience was with a man and it changes their lives. Children that are victims tend to
grow up leading very promiscuous lives, being very sexual at a very early age. Victims of
sexual assault are left to deal with a huge fear of intimacy and as stated before some go
on to molest and rape as well. It is a horrible cycle that needs to be broken and I think our
government needs to step it up.
In my opinion, I think that first time sex offenders, depending on the severity of
the crime, should serve no less than 15-20 years in prison with some intense therapy. I
believe that they should also have to be responsible for ongoing therapy for themselves
after they are released. If they repeat the offense after release I think that the death
penalty would be appropriate. We, as society, gave them a chance to heal and deal with
whatever was causing them to be that way and if they take advantage of that I do not see
why they should continue to be a burden to society.
There is an issue with women, especially, making false rape alligations; it is a
small number ranging from 2-8% of rapes per year that are falsely reported. That is still
an innocent person being accused of a heinous crime. If our police and investigations
system is what is cracked up to be, it should not be hard to prove a false rape. I do think
that there needs to be adequate proof of rape and molestation for punishment. These few
people that are sick in the head enough to accuse someone of something so horrible and
basically mock all of those that have been victims of sexual assault, should receive
punishment as well. They are the reason that women, some men and children have to go
through intense investigation and humiliating tests to prove that something did happen.
This is one of the reasons that only 68% of rapes are actually reported. Why report
something when no one will believe you? The current numbers of people actually being
incarcerated is ridiculous.
In conclusion, I believe that current punishment in our society for sexual
offenders does not at all fit the crime. These people are drastically altering innocent
human lives. They destroy sweet and innocent children and humiliate and devastate adult
women and men. It is a life altering decision that they make when they decide to rape.
They are not only destroying their lives, but also the life/lives of the victim that they
abused. I believe that with adequate jail time as well as intense counseling in and out of
jail, these people could change. If not all together at least resist the urge to act out. We
live in very perverted times and this is one area that the government could have more
control over. If something doesn’t change the cycle will continue on and on.
Thursday, December 6, 2007
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8 comments:
I think your paper is great. I totally agree. When most people are convicted of a crime restitution is a part of that punishment. With rape there is absolutely nothing they can do to pay restitution. I think all rapists should be "fixed" and put on the pills to help the "urges". What happened to the loser who hurt your baby? And the loser who put your baby in that situation? I love you and I'm sorry you have to deal with this situation.
I am so sorry to hear about your little one. I loved your paper. It made me really sad, but I know I have to be aware.
Wishing you love and peace.
This is something that I also feel very strongly about because of my own personal experiences with this issue. it is one of my biggest fears that one of my girls would some day have to deal with something like this. The criminal that did that to your sweet baby girl should be neutered and stuck in a cell to rot. Good luck and may Heavenly Father grant you peace in your heart!
okay official update request!
how are the kiddos? how are YOU?
Okie dokie! We need more posting. Lots of pictures please!
ALYSSA! I found you! Its Nicole Graham (Martin). How are you doing? How are your kids? I was thinking about you the other day and then I found you. I must say I completely agree with your paper, I totally think they should be neutered and locked away forever. I am very sorry to hear about what happened to your precious little girl. How are you all doing now? My prayers are with you and your family. Love ya girl!
Hi Alyssa I'm so glad you have a blog now we can maybe keep on touch better. I still would like to get together though. I hope everything is going well with you. You are so courageous i seriously miss you.
I know you haven't posted in a really long time, but I wanted to say that you blog is inspirational. You are defiantely a strong person, you are living you life the way you know is best. I know a lot of women who had to do what you did, and I hope you can keep it up and be strong. They are so happy now and have pretty left that life completely behind them. Good luck with everything.
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